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No
matter how good she is, she will never replace what you and your best
friend have. Sex might be great but sex isn't everything in a
relationship.
A best friend is the greatest thing one can have in life. Providing you
don't sleep with his ex. Let's get kinky a little!
There is another type of best friend that men have of course. Which is
fun for some and sick for others. The one who you ask to join you in a
threesome or compare a sexual conquest with. How do you know if he's the
same kind of best friend as above? And how to you know she will do two
of you at once? Maybe
he is and maybe he isn't. Maybe she is maybe she isn't. The chances are slim to none so don't risk it.
The same best friend is also the kind who would be open to the idea of
you and his ex-girlfriend as a couple. The fact of the matter is that
some men have a wolf pack mentality when on the subject of women.
Men
want their packs to score often and revel in the "hush hush" endorphin
rush guys get when they date and sleep with the same woman. One man got
some nookie so he wants his pack to get some as well. Some men don't
like to share. When real emotion is playing, the situation could become
complicated. You
and his ex. To
find out the nature of his relationship with his ex, you have to be a
really good judge of character. Even our best friend may not know how we
feel about our ex. If you think this might be the case you should get
some info. How did the relationship end? Did he dump or or vise versa?
Did he love her? The most important question to fid out is did he
respect her? There
are some guys that are players. I would think that these guys wouldn't
really care if you went after their ex. Then again some players are
very controlling and possessive towards their ex's. How
long has it been? If
your best friend was close with his ex, there is still a chance for you
and her. The more time that has passed, the less it's going to hurt him
when you tell him that you're interested in her. But let's say they
broke up last week and you want to make the big announcement today,
watch out. But then again if he dumped her for another woman she's free
to take. Time
is a big thing for some people. Some men have a one year rule with their
best friend. Which means give me sometime to get over her and then feel
free to have her. While other men want their best friends to wait 6-7
years for their friends to date their ex. Then there's the man who it's
just wrong to date their ex's and you don't bring it up. This is a
strict code of honor set in stone: no matter the reasons an ex is never
to be dated by a best friend. A very effective way to set things
straight. Why is
it taboo? My
opinion is that a woman is not an item. So why should men care whether
or not why they broke up? If you really like her and you want to pursue
a nice relationship with the girl then the best friend should have
nothing wrong with you dating her. No one should be held back from a
relationship regardless if she/he was your best friends ex. You can't
stop who you fall in love with. That's life. What
you should do? If
your best friend has given you his blessing, be sensitive and take your
time with his ex. It might be a little awkward but sit him down and talk
to him about it. Let him know how you feel about him as a best friend and
tell him how you feel about her. Reassure him that you would never
sacrifice your relationship for any girl. Don't go into detail about why
you have an interest in his ex. Be prepared for an extreme reaction, from
rage to silence. Number one thing to remember is stay calm. Don't blurt
out things you'll regret later.
You, her and the new relationship.
You have your best friend blessing. Now you have to attract
her. You can't afford to make any mistake. You have risked your
friendship with your best friend for a girl. You have to get that girl!
The knowledge is power! Learn
how to
attract sexy women! Change your life
today and enjoy your relationship with you body ex lady friend!
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