In that case, you may want to:
(a) Attend a Swing Party for the purpose of meeting prospective threesome friends, or
(b) patronize an Adult Store or Adult Movie House for the purpose of making potential contacts (this works often couples are able to make eye contact with a guy [less often with a gal] or a couple in an Adult Bookstore or XXX Movie Theater, motion them to the door of the Bookstore or to their seat within the Theater and openly let their wishes be known, without fear of rejection and often with successful results), or
(c) patronize a Topless Bar (this also works, and can be a way to meet that extra gal), or
(D) follow-up ads or place ads on the internet in local or national contact publications.

This last one is a very good way to meet people, but you probably will need to have a PO box and/or an anonymous voice mail service, (attached to a pager is even better), email address. This will allow one or both of you to meet the prospective third person and get to know them while remaining anonymous.

Lets say hubby is meeting a prospective guy. The meeting could be at a bar or lounge. Wife could go in first, and sit at another table so she can watch while hubby "interviews" the prospective guy. They can have a pre-arranged signal (like wife dropping her hankie on the floor) as a signal that "he looks good," or "No Way." Then the wife can join them or not as she wishes. Or, he can excuse himself to the rest room so he can meet her in the back alone before she joins them, or before he says, "We'll call you."

BE AWARE: If the guy has never been involved in a threesome before, you probably DON'T want to select him as one of your first extra guys.

4. Have a plan as to WHERE you would prefer meeting this third person for your first encounter. At your place? Generally not a good idea. Motels are good. Motels that offer hot tubs are even better (as a way to cut the ice). Adult motels are often the best. If the third person is a gal, you can probably be a bit more flexible in where you first meet.
 

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Now that you have the basic decisions out of the way:
5. Plan your wearing apparel to fit the occasion. If you will be meeting at a beach, pool or hot tub, you should both consider some minimal swim wear. If you will be meeting at a bar, she should dress as sexy as possible (short skirt, semi-revealing blouse with no bra, etc.) and if you are meeting a gal, he should dress sharp, look handsome. If you will be going to an X-rated movie in the hopes of meeting a guy, you should wear a loose, easy-opening blouse with no bra, and a very full skirt with no panties, so that within the dark of the theater you can choose to retain a discrete appearance, or allow access to your breasts and crotch as the situation unfolds.

6. Make plans to DO IT SOON! Remember, you can fantasize too much. Either or both of you can build expectations too high. Remember also that the sex you have between the two of you IS LIKELY to be better than sex with THE FIRST FEW extra people, just because you know each other better, and there is less chance of anxiety getting in the way. You may get a guy who "gets off" and wants to leave without really GIVING pleasure to you. Or, you may get a gal who "freezes up" just as the fun begins. It may take a few threesome experiences before you locate extra partners who truly melt into your shared love-making wishes.

7. Assuming the threesome went EVEN MODERATELY WELL, you should both genuinely thank the third person, and embrace them before they leave. You may want to try it again with this person. They should leave with a feeling of "warm fuzzies."

8. Finally, after each threesome experience, the two of you MUST spend some time re-living the experience with each other, what it felt like, how you would each like it to be different or similar next time, how you each appreciate and love the other for helping to make the threesome possible. You might even want to EACH write down your thoughts on each of those early threesome experiences and share them with someone (like me), just so you can express yourself fully and so you can later look back on those first experiences.

SOME IDEAS FOR GETTING THE ACTION GOING:

When you have identified a prospective third party and the situation allows, let the opposite sex dance with that third party, invite them to join you for a dip in a hot tub someplace, invite them to join you in providing a full body massage to one of the three of you or challenge them to a erotic game.

If your chosen "prospect" is a friend or relative, consider creating a setting at your home, motel, beach resort or a ski lodge where you all have minimal clothes... or where you can all recline on a blanket in front of a roaring fire. Then one of you can start massaging the other while inviting the third person to assist.

Truth or Dare allows for lots of ways to "break the ice." Certain "Dares" can lead to the removal of clothes, or intimate kisses, or blind-folded caresses, or performing certain requested sexual acts. Requests for "Truth" can open the way for asking intimate questions about sexual preferences, past sexual experiences, and determining the other person's wishes for exploring sex together NOW.

When the extra person is a guy, the woman can always note how she loves to receive a massage, particularly a four-handed, full-body massage. Seldom will the extra guy turn down that offer. Naturally, if oil is involved, everyone will have to shed their clothes so they don't get oil on their clothes.

When the extra person is a gal, you can always comment that hubby loves to have his back rubbed. You might start rubbing his back through his shirt, and eventually ask the other lady to join you. Then you could break away to get some oil while the extra lady continues and return to request that he remove his shirt and pants so you don't get oil on his clothes. It can start out non-sexual, and then as things warm up, you can run your oil-covered hand under his shorts while commenting that "this area seems to need attention too." If the other lady is turned-on by this point, she will join in.

I sincerely hope you will enjoy yourself by opening your feminine sex life to all of its potential!

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